the thing is though i dont think i’ve ever met a single dude who genuinely made an effort not to be misogynistic but still actually takes offense when a woman says “urg, men”
and pretty much every white person who is able to recognise and unpack their privilege gets what i mean when i say “urg, white people”
and straight people who are legit supporters do not get huffy when i say “urg, straight people”
and like im cis, but when trans people say “urg, cis people” im not horribly wounded
because when you’re aware of the system you also understand that it’s not about you
and i understand that nobody hates me for being cis, they hate the power that i have over them because im cis (or light-skinned, or able-bodied, etc)
like remember that quote that was like “no, i didn’t say all white people, but since that’s what you took away from it, yes, all white people”? pretty much, the more angry and confrontational you are about blanket comments, the more those comments are directed at you
which makes them a really convenient and effective thing
dont make “i identify as [funny thing]” or “my preferred pronouns are [funny things]” jokes if youre cis. i cant believe some people dont get that its a shitty thing to do but in case you havent realized: thats incredibly shitty. stop
listen up nerds, this is what it ACTUALLY looks like to take off your glasses. ugh, check your sources, tumblr… nothing gets blurry, just black and white and shoujo.
One more… North likes feeding Bunny. Though he enjoys teasing him a lot more
actually anime wolfboy ore
my gender is an armored stone wolf that guards the space under little kid beds from monsters and chases away bad dreams
but i guess a boring binary question deserves a boring binary answer- male. see how boring that was. maaale.
the worst is having a dream where someone loves you and you can practically feel them touching you and it feels so real and then you wake up and it’s like the life is being sucked out of you and the happiness just drains out of your body and you feel empty again